Today, I performed an everyday act of bravery. I got a haircut.
I hate getting my hair cut. Because when you have a chronic illness, everything changes. With my particular illness, fragrances and chemicals can set off a reaction that will cause me to feel ill for hours or even days. So, it’s a commitment to walk into a salon and sit next to perfumes, hair products and chemicals. Alas, everyone needs a haircut now and then.
Probably, I could find a stylist who has a home shop, who would use special shampoos and who would work hard to ensure her space is aired out properly. Maybe, someday I will need to go to those lengths. But today, I can still walk into a salon and walk out without calling the emergency response team. I will pay for my decision at least through this next day. However, I have to say…it’s super cute. And better yet, I got to go with my teenage daughter and banter with the stylists about Halloween costumes and how our family took home the best Disney costume award on our last cruise.
But I digress. Today if you have chronic illness, I’m pretty sure you performed several acts of everyday bravery too. Take time to notice what you did. Notice that you achieved something, no matter how small. And when people say “it’s all in your head” or “aren’t you better yet,” recall that you’re doing something brave everyday…just by living with chronic illness. You are amazing.
So be strong and courageous!
Thank you! We are brave and live each day on the edge…. Some days we take risks to gain more enjoyment or fulfill some goals. I know the rewards and joy at the end are worth the venture on most of those days. If the risks and setbacks are more than I bargained, or out of my control, I may pay dearly, but I am usually glad I took the chance to try it and let my courage boldly go before my fears.
I appreciate your reminder of our everyday braveness with chronic illness living.
Well said! I’m usually glad I take a risk when it’s something worth fighting for. Other days, it’s better to pass up the chance to do something that might make me sick, but doesn’t really matter to me!